Be honest with yourself and your relationship worthiness We’ve all heard it before, “before anyone can love you, you must love yourself”.
So before you even contact your ex, remember one very important thing: nothing you do will work without love for yourself.
There will be a lot of work to do and you’ll meet with some resistance from time to time.
Just remember there are so many men and women out there who have done it!
Dating your ex again isn’t the same as dating someone new.
You have a romantic history together and that changes the whole dynamics of approaching, asking for a date and entering into a relationship.
It starts with loving yourself, being honest to yourself and having enough confidence in yourself.
By doing this, the other person feels seen, heard, validated and cared for.7.
If it is likely that you will fail because of a sense of inadequacy/ insecurity, neediness, desperation, guilt, anger, jealousy etc. In this state, you are not at your best and you are not thinking clearly and rationally.
The amount of time and effort it takes for each person to once again become emotionally available differs according to the time and effort each wastes ranting, raving, stalking, moping around and missing their ex.2.
Trying to put everything on fast forward is a huge mistake that actually slows down the process — and even permanently halts it.
Just because you want your ex back so bad, does NOT mean they feel the same about you at that point in time.