Meaning that even if they accept your help, they will always be the one in charge while you will be the financial provider.Yes, you will never be the most important person in their lives.Dolls and teddy bears are among their favorites so go straight to the kids’ department if you are looking for a last-minute gift. Chinese girls can be shy as you know, but, above all, they aren’t used to getting compliments.They are going to have a hard time dealing with your lovely words so don’t think that this is because that didn’t appreciate what you said – they just don’t know how to behave, and they will most commonly try to say that you are wrong or, at least, to minimize the compliment.It is not a common practice among Chinese men to be chivalrous.Not that they are rude or unkind towards their women, of course.While I lived in China for three years, I dated a few girls.Selling smartphones gave me the chance to talk to them and to find a way to arrange a meeting later on.
So be aware that, if you do anything like this for your Chinese girl, she might look you surprised or far happier that you expected.
I've been with a good number of girls, have had a few girlfriends, and – as I like to dabble in all things – have been sporadically active in the different expat communities in Beijing.
In fact, I moonlight as a rather well-connected man-about-town in the expat community here (or rather, I was doing so earlier this year… Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.
Chinese women still think that they should manage the household by themselves so be prepared for it.
As I said, things are gradually changing, but most of them will still see as their solely duty to keep the house clean, to cook, and to look after the children.