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He seems perpetually lost in thought, constantly thinking about and studying the world around him.

"He's always watching his environment to apply it to the site," says Kanciar.

He builds his company by himself and from his apartment.

In most stories, this is where the hard work begins -- the long hours, sleepless nights, and near-death business experiences. Frind takes it easy, working no more than 20 hours a week during the busiest times and usually no more than 10.

Another memorable valentine involved the secret consumption of a massive quantity of hot peppers.Though his mouth was on fire, Frind calmly planted a kiss on Kanciar's lips and feigned ignorance as she went scrambling for water.Kanciar, a freelance Web designer who also helps out around Plenty of Fish, is a lanky blonde with an easy smile and a hearty laugh, which she often uses to try to get Frind to open up.Quiet, soft-featured, and ordinary looking, he is the kind of person who can get lost in a roomful of people and who seems to take up less space than his large frame would suggest.Those who know Frind describe him as introverted, smart, and a little awkward.